Ganito kasi yan, kaming mga lalaki, may sarili rin kaming buhay. Hindi naman kasi dahil sinagot niyo na kami, dapat, nandiyan na kami kaagad kapag sinabi niyo kahit napaka imposible.
Wag niyo kaming underin. Masakit sa pakiramdam na maisip namin na inaalipin niyo kami.
Hindi niyo alam kung gaano kahirap magisip ng kung anong ireregalo para sa monthsarry na wala naman sa dictionary. Hindi niyo rin alam kung gaano kahirap magkaroon ng pera na pang date sa inyo. Nagagalit pa nga kayo kapag sinasabi naming kayo na ang sumagot sa pamasahe. At nagagalit kayo kapag late kami ng five minutes, samantalang pag kayo na ang late ng thirty minutes, kayo pa ang galit kapag nagreklamo kami.
Hindi naman kami nanunumbat. Sinasabi lang namin ang nararamdaman namin dahil ayaw namin isang araw, manlamig na lang kami bigla at umalis ng walang paalam sa mga piling niyo.
Importante kayo sa amin kaya wag na kayo magpaimportante pa. 1:10 ang ratio ng lalake sa babae. Kung hindi namin kayo mahal, matagal na naming kayong iniwan dahil sa kakadakdak mo tungkol sa nabuntis mong kaaway nung highschool. Seryoso, mahal namin kayo pero wala kaming pakialam dun.
Ayaw naming nakikitang nakabusangot kayo dahil hindi iyon ang dahilan kung bakit nahulog ang puso namin sa inyo. Naiintindihan naming fragile kayo masyado pero, please, wag niyo naman kaming sigawan sa harap ng maraming tao. Nakakababaw ng self-esteem at pagkalalake yun.
Wag rin kayong magalit kung paminsan ay aksidente kaming napapatingin sa ibang babae. By chances lang iyon. Hindi tulad ng ginagawa niyo kapag kasama niyo ang mga kaibigan niyo. Hawak niyo na ang kamay namin, naghahanap pa rin kayo ng pogi at maghahagikgikan kayo kapag may naispotan kayo. Nakakaintimidate yun lalo na kapag napapangitan kami sa lalaki.
Lahat gagawin niyo makausap lang kami, lahat gagawin namin makita lang kayo. Okay na sa inyo ang boses pero sa amin kulang iyon. Hindi excuse yung kesyo bawal ka lumabas, bakit, wala bang bintana bahay niyo? At gagawa at gagawa kami ng paraan makita lang kayo, kahit tahulan na kami ng aso niyo o ‘di kaya ay lumabas na yung tatay mong may dala nang baril.
Hindi kami nanunumbat. Hindi namin kayo sinisisi. Sinasabi lang namin ang nararamdaman namin. At alam naman nating lahat na kahit anong gawin naming mga lalaki na dahilan, kayo pa rin ang mananalo dahil hindi namin kayo kayang tiisin at mahal na mahal namin kayo.
Things to remember when you’re in a relationship:
- Remember your friends. Friendship is not a vase you can stick in a corner and dust off when you’re ready to use it — it’s a live thing that must be cared for, nourished. Whether you’re in a relationship for the next few months or the rest of your life, your friends are important and necessary. They will keep you from spinning out of control in ways that your relationship can’t. Don’t neglect them or take advantage of them.
- Don’t neglect or take advantage of your partner, either. Remember that they are a person with a family, a dream, a past. Let them be human and make the mistakes you’re both bound to repeat over and over again. Pick your battles. Let them have a bad day at work. Let them call you when they’re drunk. Let them pursue what’s important to them, even when it doesn’t include you.
- Pursue what’s important to you. Remember that you’re an individual; that your personal success matters. Have something other than ‘Really awesome girlfriend! :D’ on your resume. Take pride in something. Keep tucked away in the back of your mind that, should there be a break up, your partner will not be able to take custody of the things you’ve accomplished.
- Remember to keep your balance. Remember that your friends and your family and your job and your alone-time predate your relationship. Consider the ebb and flow of your life: sometimes one thing may need to take precedence for a stretch of time, but it’s up to you to maintain equilibrium when possible. Be fair when divvying up your time — to others, and definitely to yourself.
- Take care of your body. Biology doesn’t brake for monogamous relationships. Go to the doctor. Protect yourself. Proceed with caution.
- Take care of your mind. If you’re hoping the relationship will fix your broken parts, look forward to being disappointed. No matter how many years you spend with someone, you’re still the sole proprietor of your happiness. Don’t sit around waiting for someone to change how you feel about yourself or your situation.
- Notice the way your partner treats people: friends, colleagues, etc. You’re probably getting them at their best, but if you’re appalled by their worst, remember that you might one day find yourself getting the brunt of it. Remember that you are not immune to anything.
- You can’t control the course of your relationship or the actions of your partner, but remember that you’re welcome to exercise free will and make the changes you find necessary. If you’re not happy, leave. Someone loved you once and someone will love you again.
- Remember that someone loves you. Maybe it’s one or both of your parents, maybe it’s your friends, maybe it’s your partner. If it’s all three, consider yourself lucky. Remember to love back.
1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. “Are you…
(Source: itsmegelii)
